Reply To: Make outs mean nothing
Maybe one in forty times that I’ve gone for the kiss has a girl said no. And by that, I mean directly going for the kiss. Why? Because by the time I go for that kiss, the girl has jumped through so many of my hoops that I know I’m going to get a yes. High value game is about making her jump through those hoops. If you’re not doing that – if you’re not starting to work early to reverse the power dynamic – you will have to chase her for that kiss, and you will have to continue chasing her if she refuses. Should you be persistent? I’d rather you were persistent with the rest of your game, the way you challenge and question her. If she makes it through that, you will need very little persistence to get a date or a kiss.