Reply To: Read Me: Why Guys Aren't Getting Consistent Lays on this Forum

[MrAntiquity]

I think ultimately it comes down to demonstrating that you can understand and relate to a woman sexually. That in itself demonstrates status/value–not everyone has achieved that level of comfort with themselves. most haven’t. If you have, that says something: that in itself is sexy. While some people are drawn to external signs of status (wealth, lots of friends, etc.) these are actually quite superficial and not strong fundamentals for true attraction.

There are lots of flat out losers who do well with women. They demonstrate no status. What makes them successful is the sexual connectivity. Lee–you gave the example of cat-calling construction workers. That may be a kind of sexual energy–but it’s fully one-sided–the woman isn’t actually involved at all.