This guy is a popular vlogger. I don’t follow him too much but I’ve seen him a couple times. He’s charismatic, entertaining and funny. He gets millions of views and seems like he has no trouble performing in front of people. That is, until you ask him to talk with women.
A lot of guys are like this. You can be funny and creative around your friends but get in front of a stranger–particularly an attractive stranger–and you freeze up. It doesn’t mean you are slow, stupid or socially retarded. It simply means you are inhibited.
Inhibition is a natural self-paralysis that can happen in both social and nonsocial situations. It is the body’s natural defense against you putting yourself in harm’s way–or putting you into any further danger if you are already in danger.
The solution to inhibition is to teach your body to get past this paralysis through slow exposure. Like public speaking, once you do it enough, your inhibition and inner turmoil starts to subside and you begin to feel confident in those situations.
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Before the Six Step Method, I couldn’t even ask someone what time it was. Now, I go out some days like a seek-and-destroy missile. When I see a beautiful woman, I’m there. I have the tools to start a conversation and be interesting, engaging, and attractive from the start.
This book is practical and concise. Everything involves a tangible step I could take to break out of my comfort zone. The most important difference between your approach and others: like any artistic pursuit, you must treat yourself with kindness.
I don’t hesitate to say that this book could be life-changing for those of us who clearly need to do something about our romantic lives and are looking for a way to do that that will make us not just better with women, but able to feel better about ourselves and to view the world as a less hostile place.
This is a great course for guys struggling with extreme anxiety when it comes to approaching women. The bottom line: If you have real trouble approaching women, this is definitely worth checking out.
