As I get on to the subway platform, I’m tired. It’s 9 pm and I’ve been hanging out with Glenn and a friend in the park. I’m ready to just go home and chill.
I see this incredibly cute blond girl. She glances over at me and back at the tracks.
Is she into me, I wonder to myself.
I look around the platform and notice some other cuties wandering around, looking at subway maps, walking by.
I glance back over at her and she’s looking at me again.
Okay, she is definitely looking at me.
I walk casually walk over and stand next to her. She notices my presence.
I tap her on the arm.
“If you’re gonna look at a guy like that, you should probably say hi.”
She turns and smiles. “Hi,” she says.
We start to talk. And it’s on like crazy. We get on the train together when it comes.
There’s an electricity between us.
“Are you a hard worker?” I ask her.
“Yeah,” she says.
“Let me see your hand.” She gives me her hand.
I start to feel her palms. “Hmmm. No calluses. I don’t think you’re a very hard worker.”
“I type a lot,” she says.
“Okay, let’s try your finger tips. Hmm… still no calluses.” I say as I start to feel her finger tips.
I don’t stop.
“Okay, I think you just want to feel my hand,” she says with a smile.
“Hmm…,” I say, looking into her eyes. “I think you want me to feel your hand.”
Picking up on when women are giving me eye contact hasn’t been my forte. I thought it was because I wasn’t getting much eye contact.
But part of the issue is that I don’t realize soon enough when they do give me eye contact.
When guys are getting good at this stuff but aren’t that great yet, it’s harder for them to pick up on signals of interest.
Because they don’t make the move that much, they practically need to be welcomed by trumpets.
As you start to take initiative more, you start to pick up on more subtle signals with women and know better when to make the move.
For me, I’m going to start assuming interest a lot sooner, even with the first glance. I think I’ve been waiting too long.
As I take initiative immediately, I suspect I’ll begin to get more sensitive when women are giving me eye contact.
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