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I know its wrong to compare yourself to others, and people will say “who cares what those other guys are doing, focus on you”, yes I know that, its just that obviously the overwhelming vast majority of guys get, experience having their very first girlfriend by their late teens and early 20’s, and I know people are going to say there is no cut off point or it is not a race, I am aware of that as well, its just that the fact that most guys experience having a girlfriend or a decent amount of sexual experience before age 25, it makes me wonder if most guys are naturally instinctively born with the confidence, social-skills and conversation-skills, flirting-skills, “game”, that is essential, imperative for success with women, getting a girlfriend, etc., or what did they do in order to acquire the ” game”/ or ability to know how to get a girlfriend, did their dad teach them or was it their social upbringing? I know we can’t change the past and it is not good to dwell on it, our past does not dictate our future, just if I ever have a son someday I want to make sure he doesn’t end up being a late bloomer with women and dating like I was, overall it just seems for most guys knowing how to get a girlfriend is common sense for them in their teen years and early 20’s since most guys are experienced by then

[WantToBeAnAlpha217]

Then I wonder what is the best action plan to take in order to learn how to get a girlfriend, know the step by step process of getting a girlfriend since obviously guys have to be the initiators, I wonder why being the initiator, approaching and talking to girls in a way that makes them attracted to you, see you as boyfriend material, never came natural or instinctive for me, because it looks like it is natural and instinctive common sense for most guys by their late teens and early 20’s

[WantToBeAnAlpha217]

I have Asperger’s too, don’t want to let it stop me, refuse to let it stop me

[WantToBeAnAlpha217]

just wondering if the e-book “She’s 6 steps Away” goes over conversation skills and building rapport with a woman, escalating beyond the approach? if that review on DatingSkills.com was not good enough?

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