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October 20, 2014 at 3:41 pm in reply to: Three questions to ask yourself when you're about to walk away from a girl #72080
If it’s an addiction thing and you need to take a break for sanity–by all means do what’s healthy for you.
Numbers don’t count. Dates do. Glenn once told me something that I think is very accurate. Game aside, he asked me what fraction of women I thought I was compatible with. He pointed out how small that number must be. I realized that he’s right.
When you say “This is a very friendly city. Do you agree?” be prepared to tell your story regardless of their answer. Just give them enough time to respond, and if it’s a yes or a no, keep going with your story. If they’re receptive to talking, it’s the story that will get a longer reaction, usually some laughter.
Thanks man. I’ve been experimenting with this skepticism stuff a bit. I read one of Eric’s blogs on this site in which he was talking about qualification, and he recommended saying something like “oh you’re a lawyer, that’s interesting.October 8, 2014 at 3:48 pm in reply to: Hi. I get cockblocked more than anyone on the planet. Please help. #71772
I don’t think you need to be constantly escalating on dates. If you are a good conversation, and a bit of a challenge, you are halfway there. Just be a bit sexual. Talk about sex, make sexual jokes, flirt, make eye contact and touch her now and then. Move venues halfway through the night and go to a place where you can sit side-by-side if possible. Then go for the makeout.
Sure you can just talk to those 5 girls a day. Better than nothing. But the more people I can talk to during the day the better I feel. And this is not just people I am pursuing. Just to be chatty is good and great exercise because then you can open any girl and it won’t feel forced at all.