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Lee,
Sent a picture with a caption to another girl today and got back “Haha selfie! How’s it going? Having fun I see.”

That’s a buy in, right?

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Thanks for your reply.
So in your opinion, what are signs that she is bought in? The other day I texted a girl a picture with a funny caption and she texted back “thats so funny!!!”
Is she bought in? If so, would your next text be the time and place to meet or would you do one more to transition?

I’m getting more numbers from girls who are texting back which is great but a lot of them are fading away before we meet up. Trying to figure all this out [:
Thanks,

-s

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So do you ever end an interaction with a casual and vague “lets hang out sometime”, or is it not even worth it in your opinion?

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@Lee Thanks for the in depth answer. So what you’re saying is stop being happy just having a conversation with a cute girl and actually start finding out if she is someone you even care about hanging out with more. She’ll respect you for not fawning over her like every other man.
Do you feel its inauthentic or insulting to say something like “A model in New York…shocking.”? Or is it authentic because its coming from a mindset of being confident in who you are and not being bowled over by the fact that a pretty girl is talking to you?

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@Lee you said “If you get women into comfortable conversations – conversations in which they feel your interest but feel no pressure to consider you a romantic prospect – and then ask for contact info, guess what? You’re going to get it because it’s so comfortable for them to keep talking to you that it makes it all the more uncomfortable to say no”

This is perfect. That’s where I am now. I get into comfortable conversations all the time (which is great, a huge accomplishment for me) but most of the time nothing comes of it. I know a lot of it is that I’m still unsure of myself and I just need more experience but what do you do to break through that “niceness” and “comfort”? At first I didn’t understand why the numbers were mostly flaky but now I can sense whats happening, though I’m still trying to figure out how to rise above it.

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Thanks Eric. So do you take a non reply to the first text as a definite no? I can only think of one time where a girl responded to the second text but not the first one a few days earlier, so I think you’re right haha. Out of curiosity, do you text right away? I think I remember from the demo interactions that you call her phone while you’re still talking?

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