[Marshall74]

Yes it does. Thanks. This has been an area for me that i strongly need work with. I’m suspicious that most normal guys do too.
I think 80% of men fall into this trap and your article is well written and very clear.
In a relationship when you create space even though they don’t realize they have irritated you they come at you with questions and its at this point i think is what makes or breaks it.
Its almost like its being done on purpose just to try and test you. Lol

At that point what to do?
“Not angry hun just busy” yadda yadda.

How do you respond after they irritated you and the detect the space and inquire.??
“Nah hun just been thinking of my next scheme to conquer the world”

We are so conditioned to “talk” its hard to communicate implicitly.
Very very deep subject just in 1 blog post Eric and thanks for it.

[Marshall74]

Thanks for taking the time Eric. Great advice. I loved the article. I saved that one and reread it from time to time.
Can you elaborate a little more if the situation is a bit more LTR? Not necessarily a live in situation but the ltr situations were she’s not necessarily aware of it. And perhaps its those occasions that us guys get to butt hurt and being a needy baby about things and need to practice.
Same advice? Ltr maintenance? Again thanks for the info bro.

[Marshall74]

Hi Eric i thought of a question on this subject today i became curious of your take. I believe this is important subject. So many fails in this area

How do you show her less of your time without coming across as passive aggressive? If she is pissing you off or irritated or hurt, and you want to put space there and she asks if your angry or upset or whatever. How to proceed? Ignore? Banter? Be busy?

Thanks Man

[Marshall74]

Hey good read and a heart breaker! Eric as usual is probably right.
As i read this when she “re asked you about tuesday” I thought that sounded just as Eric said an orbiter.
I thought next time she gives that opportunity just tell her no. Flat out deny her access to you at all.

[Marshall74]

Hi Eric love the read. Doez this logic aplmy to foreign girls IYO? Particulary asian girls?
Foreign women from their native countries.

[Marshall74]

I 2nd that idea Eric. It would be a great addition to your blog posts. Insightful stuff

[Marshall74]

“””For women, how she meets a guy is important. If she meets him through a seemingly serendipitous way, like a guy randomly starting a conversation with her in a coffee shop, it’s special. It doesn’t happen that often to her. It seems to her like the universe is making it happen, because it happened to her. If she has to go out and make it happen, through online dating, speed dating, etc., then the guy is less attractive to her because she had to take initiative to go online and make it happen, even if he writes her first.””

Eric this an awsome way to put this and it makes total sense. Im glad i asked you this because your out there and give a clear answer. Im not were i want to be with approaching. Im starting to have the urge to just fck online. I get better indicators in the real world anyhow.
Annnnd im on a no porn no jerking streak and its actually building my natural confidence. Thanks again

[Marshall74]

Eric i noticed what you said about online. Im just recently getting back into trying online and it seems like its gotten worse. As far as women super preselecting off of material stuff. Height, etc etc. Like shopping.
Tell us how much better it is to approach be foing it out in public.
Whats the comparison like?

[Marshall74]

Liberator good job on your efforts. I got the audio interactions and they will definately aid you in feeling it better.

[Marshall74]

Hey eric i read your reply and i agree with you.
There is a line for looks but a guy can make up for it.
Im not concerned as this is my crutch just for learning purposes.
I consider myself a 6-7 but im sure im seen higher IRL. OLD different story.
Im only 5’7 ish but i have a great teeth and face but this video still was somthing i wanted to bring up.

So witbout being to unhuman could a decent guy of say a 6 date up 2 points on what we consider the scale??

[Marshall74]

Good idea cartoox. Its amazing how much i can overthink shit. It IS getting better thougn. Im definately going back there just wasnt sure about how long to give it.

[Marshall74]

When i think of why she said to come back why shes working my spidey senses are telling me there may be a mild shit test hidden in this situation?
2 weeks long enough?
Another girlfriend of mine said not to wait to long but i think thats bullshit lol

[Marshall74]

I just reread through that “what to do thread” dang if i could have read back through that 4 months ago. I hope its up for a while because that thread is priceless in many ways. Watching it unfold.
Its crazy how we get caught up in the relationship and forget that stuff.

[Marshall74]

Thanks cartoox, intersting thread. The girl im reffering to was definately the bitchy princess, high maintnence type that nothing was ever good enough. But man she was smoking. Lol

[Marshall74]

Cartoox I actually got a bit of revenge on a dishonest girl before. Blatenly dishonest.
However while getting revenge i actually helped out a situation for the better so it wasnt so shitty.
Has anyone ever gotten revenge on an ex before?

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