Forum Replies Created
September 30, 2014 at 12:15 am in reply to: Read Me: Why Guys Aren't Getting Consistent Lays on this Forum #71702kiriyama_27Participant
LOL +1 to that again.
I had a bad habit of over-complicating it… had all these sophisticated routines in my head, this and that, and I could barely keep it straight. Limited (read: No) success.
First breakthrough was when I listened to a free audio clip Eric posted on this site here. He barely did anything! It sounded like nothing at all, he just mentioned some sex survey and talked like a normal guy about normal small talk shit. Bam, digits in two minutes or less. Key word – talk like a NORMAL GUY. It took forever for this to actually click for myself, because of a lifetime of conditioning.
You didn’t see his posture, or where he was standing, but like 90% of it is this. That is all I changed in my game, and instantly there was success. Stand straight, eye contact, good voice. Non-verbals and the confident voice. The voice is a real killer, I think. If you sound like a weenie, you are sunk, instantly.
I am fundamentally the same guy before and after, but my presentation of myself has improved and so have my results – initially. My escalation was super shaky because I started fucking around, doubting myself, wondering what we were working towards, all kinds of Too Nice Guy stuff that makes me want to cringe right out of my skin now. If I had just taken this advice and gone for it, I’d have maybe three booty calls right now instead of a clean slate and another 40 sets.
You didn’t have the strongest round of videos.. I’d seen them before, and thought the same thing. Weak number closes. But I know enough guys personally that are just not all that high value but rake in women anyway to know there is, absolutely, truth to what you are saying.September 29, 2014 at 10:57 pm in reply to: Read Me: Why Guys Aren't Getting Consistent Lays on this Forum #71699kiriyama_27Participant
Fuck this is almost exactly what I need to hear right now.
re: guy saying you are average – maybe you aren’t. I thought I was for the longest time then for the first time in my life put together a good run of game, scored ten numbers in a month (usually how many I’d get in three years). When I had it goin on, I felt better looking. For all I know I was actually better looking. The stolen glances and check outs I thought I wasn’t getting, I was. A lot of em. Maybe I just got better at catching them, but I felt like I looked great and things were happening for me. Maybe just get that ball rolling the first time and you will get so much swagger you can pull off this type of thing no problem.
How can these girls even tell you are high status anyway? Unless you lead with your dick measurement, annual salary, and tangible assets in your game all they can do is try and guess based on the way you present yourself. Act high status, and they will believe it – and make it easier for you to believe it yourself. It sounds like a con but after a while it won’t be.
As you can tell I am talkin past tense here. I squandered that attention on being a milquetoast nice guy motherfucker like I’ve always been. I started strong and fucked it up with every one of those girls.
I don’t really want to lose touch with that since it is who I’ve been for the last 28 years, but god damn. I am not getting my annual dose of pussy in my life. What Ryano is saying might be a little over the top. But this is what I needed to hear.