Home page › Forums › Approach Forum › What women really want – The science not the bullshit
^^^ mistake above in “hell, you even tell her that you’re not about sex.” meant to be “hell, you even tell her that you’re not about relationships.”
There is no difference between the way you should meet women for sex and the way you should meet women for relationships. In both cases, you’ll be most successful if you turn up the heat, turn it way up. I’m a big believer in rapid escalation. Guys who think that getting a relationship by treating women as princesses are just fooling themselves. Women want you to see them as hot, not just smart or interesting. That having been said, women are more attracted to men who, in addition to having some major balls, are also very selective. When you approach them and show sexual interest, how can you show that you’re selective? You can show it by challenging them to prove themselves in other ways. That will get you laid with the hottest women more often than just approaching these women and focusing exclusively on sex. Nothing wrong with sex, but you’ll do better when you give women what all these studies show they want, a chance to bed a truly selective man. That’s the narrative they’re looking for in even their most casual sexual encounters.