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    Last time I spoke with this girl (we’ll call her “Jane”) was on Monday, when our mutual friends hung out together at a local coffeehouse during open mic night. Jane and I had a couple of convos going, we were basically catching up since she was out of town for a week. We kept talking and could have kept on, but the show was starting so we had to shut up. Show was over and we didn’t really say “goodbye”, but whatever.

    There’s an art gallery reception opening next Saturday and I think that’d be the best place for a “date/meetup”. It’s a week away, and I don’t want her to think I lost interest. I was thinking of texting her until we meetup, but what to text her? I know my texts should be flirty and witty, but I’m coming up blank. I was watching the San Francisco 49ers vs St Louis Rams game last night, where they lost 35-11 and Jane is from St Louis. Any ideas on how to use that game as a ping? Or whatever? Thanks.

    Eric Disco

    You didn’t mention whether or not you already had this girl’s phone number in your post. I am going to assume you do. If you don’t, I would not recommend getting her number through a friend and pinging her. Instead, I would wait until you saw her again in person.

    If you do already have her number, I wouldn’t ping her with a football ping unless you know she is into football. Your average girl (and even your average guy) probably doesn’t watch football. Instead, I would ping her with something more girl-relevant.

    If you know she’s into football, then I would say it’s fine to send her a ping about that.


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