Help with email

[silversun]

Hey guys, hope everyone is doing well. I just need some help with a message I got into… I’ll try to keep it short, but I can give more details if needed. Basically, my friend told this girl about me and she gave him her number and told him to tell me to email her (all her idea, not his, so it looks like she’s interested). So, I ended up emailing her back and forth… I didn’t want the small talk to last forever and also because she was showing what I perceived to be interest, I decide I should ask (tell) her out. I told her we should meet in a few days for coffee (didn’t ask, told) and that I would text later (since I had her number). Well, it’s been a few days and she hasn’t responded to the email…I just wanted to know, should I still go ahead and text later or just give it up? Also, did I do something wrong or was there no interest from the beginning you think? Thanks!

[Eric Disco]

You told her when and where to meet. All good. But then you said you’d text later, relieving her of the burden of having to make a decision. This could be a no, or it could be her just waiting for you to text as you previously promised. At this point, I would text but without mentioning the date. Send her a ping. “this is where i am right now” and a pic of something funny or unusual or interesting. If she responds and engages you in some basic chit chat but doesn’t mention the date, stop texting her, disappear, wait a few weeks, and start all over. In other words, she didn’t want to go on that date with you and she didn’t suggest an alternative. If she mentions the date, just say “yeah we’re still on! the adventure begins”. It makes it seem like you always assumed it was on.

–Lee

[Eric Disco]

Worked like a charm Lee, thanks. Do you have a website as well? I’d love to check it out. I really like some of your responses.

[Eric Disco]

Thanks for the kind words. Always appreciated. Unfortunately, no, no blog of my own. Eric’s the pro. He manages and organizes this site. I wouldn’t do as good a job if I had my own. If you want to shoot me an email directly, I am lee@effortlessgame.com. Otherwise, you can always find me here.

–Lee

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