OK, here’s an old school type question. With a bit of a twist.
I sort of may (or may not) be interested in this woman and have been considering asking her out. I haven’t yet because she’s my language tutor. I’m 10 years older (I’m 40, she’s 30) so no huge deal.
It’s a bit of a twist because 98% of the interaction has been in Spanish–which I don’t speak–so while I’m trying to convey advanced concepts and ideas, the level of (linguistic) interaction is probably around elementary school level. We actually have a good bit in common about the way we look at the world. I’ve teased/challenged her some, but no serious flirting yet…
My last class is Friday (although I might sign up for others–she’s actually a realy good tutor and I’ve learned a lot). It also hapepns to be her birthday that day–maybe I”ll bring smoething in Not a gift–just something to celebrate. Cookies or something.
I dont’ know if I’ll ask her out or not–maybe. Any tips? If she says no I’ll probably be mildly disappointed but not that much.
I’ve been in tons of situations like this before–usually I end up with the “do you want to get a drink sometime?” routine–sometimes it works but I could use something a bit better.