Reply To: What would you do?
I’m a bit confused as to the sequence of events. She was pushing for exclusivity and so you finally said yes. When and why did she say that she wants an open relationship?
Your move of showing her the note could possibly come across as weak unless it was clear to her that you were totally joking and didn’t give a shit about the note. If you really wanted to tie things up with this girl, you would be better off having her just find the note. Particularly saying, “You have some competition” could come across as trying too hard, unless of course you were clearly joking and clearly did not give a shit.
A lot of how you play this really depends on your relationship with this girl. I still don’t like that she said, “I want an open relationship.” Even saying that as a ploy is not a good sign.