Reply To: Slow momentum with girl
Just act like nothing ever happened when you see her. Let her initiate conversation with you if possible. When you do see each other, be friendly. Give her a hug and say, “How are you?” Then after a minute or two, leave the interaction and go do something else. Preferably, you should talk with other women nearby. Regardless, you should be upbeat and charismatic with everyone there EXCEPT her. Don’t exclude her. Be friendly with her momentarily when she takes initiative. But don’t make any effort with her. Focus your attention on everyone else but her.
What she gave you was a definite No. Now it’s her turn to take initiative if she wants to hang out with you in a sexual manner. To be all over her when you see her would be a huge sign of weakness on your part.