Reply To: persistent or annoying?
You’re looking at this the wrong way. You have to reassess how you think of compatibility. Compatibility is not how good you think she is for you, which is the language you used to describe it. Compatibility is how good you both think you are for each other. It makes no sense whatsoever to want to be with a woman who doesn’t understand or appreciate you, no matter how good you think she is for you. All of game is about buying yourself enough time with a woman for her to see your value. This woman didn’t see your value. If you had a strong, healthy sense of self, the only regret you’d have is that you wasted a little time on her. You wouldn’t actually want her back.
Regardless, taking it slow is a bad idea. Taking it slow loses the girl much more often than it gets the girl. Being a strong aggressive man is attractive to women, even shy women.