Reply To: persistent or annoying?

[The_Hurricane]

Most often, a rejection will be about you and your character, and you have to learn to accept it. Why am I saying this? Think about what the world would look like if we were all compatible, if any guy could be happy with any girl. All of our notions of romantic love would disappear. No longer would it be important to any of us to find someone special. Everyone would be “special”. Do you want to live in a world like that? Call me a crazy romantic, but I don’t want to live in that world. And if you’re like me, you will have to learn to accept the fact that in a world where only a small fraction of women are compatible with you, the most likely outcome of approaching a woman is rejection and the most likely outcome of dating her is failure. That’s the way it should be! That’s the world’s way of finding a woman who really understands and appreciates you. Until you find that woman, you will see many failures and rejections. Welcome them. They’re the world’s way of telling you that the woman you’re interested in doesn’t understand and appreciate you. Would you really want to be with a woman like that? I wouldn’t!

–Lee