Reply To: No reply from a girl I met at an outing event

[Eric Disco]

If she hasn’t responded yet, she won’t change her mind when you send another text in a few days. You blew it by showing too much interest. Now, disappear for a while. The most attractive thing you can do is wait a few weeks to ping her. A ping is a flirty text message or link. Don’t just ask her out. Send her a ping and wait for her to respond. If she responds positively, ask her out. Will it work? Unlikely. The fact that you barely had any interaction with this girl combined with the fact that she failed to respond to your second text means you probably blew it. Nevertheless, if you want to continue, the ping strategy is your best bet.

–Lee