Reply To: more than friends (long post)
Don’t think about it in terms of ‘nice’ vs. ‘not nice’. That dual thinking is a big part of the reason guys cant figure out the dating scene. Like Lee/Eric are always saying, you need to push the envelope, not be afraid of sexuality, keep up the tension and basically charge up the interaction. Basically you need to let some old-school masculinity into the interaction–i.e. not be afraid to let the girl know that you see her as a woman. That’s one thing that a lot of guys (certainly including myself) have a lot of trouble with.