Reply To: Help with email

[Eric Disco]

You told her when and where to meet. All good. But then you said you’d text later, relieving her of the burden of having to make a decision. This could be a no, or it could be her just waiting for you to text as you previously promised. At this point, I would text but without mentioning the date. Send her a ping. “this is where i am right now” and a pic of something funny or unusual or interesting. If she responds and engages you in some basic chit chat but doesn’t mention the date, stop texting her, disappear, wait a few weeks, and start all over. In other words, she didn’t want to go on that date with you and she didn’t suggest an alternative. If she mentions the date, just say “yeah we’re still on! the adventure begins”. It makes it seem like you always assumed it was on.

–Lee