Reply To: Going out on your own at the weekends for over 40, any advice?

[Eric Disco]

I always found it a bit difficult to focus on both nightgame and daygame at the same time. Maybe it’s just me, but they are about as opposite as you can get in terms of social environments. Yes, in both you are initiating interactions with strangers, but in nightgame they are expecting it to happen which makes it both harder and easier in different ways. So if it were me, I would focus on either daygame or nightgame for a while, and once you feel you are fairly competent, then master the other. If you feel you have a lot of emotional energy to do both, then go for it. But as somewhat of an introvert, I have always felt my time and energy were somewhat limited which means I have to focus more.

Eric