Reply To: first date
Don’t tell her you’re not interested. The only time you should tell a girl that you’re not interested is if she keeps pushing or you feel there was a real connection there after sleeping together a few times. If you haven’t slept together you can pretty much do the fade-away. Just don’t return texts or return them really slow and indicate you’re ‘busy’ every time she wants to hang out. If she keeps inviting you out more than once, then yes, I would tell her you’re not interested.