Reply To: Busy Girls
Thanks for this Lee. This is very valuable information to me.
I think you nailed it with your assessment; I am way too needy with girls I like. I really wanted this girl. I was constantly checking my phone to see if she texted me, I was thinking about her way too much etc.
I tend to build girls up and get attached to them undeservedly. It’s something that just happens even though I actively tell myself not to do it. With this girl I wrote stuff down about her that I didn’t like, told myself she wasn’t girlfriend material, and was actively approaching other girls. I can logically convince myself not to be needy but I still am needy. I think I can fake it all I want but the girl will still sniff out my neediness.
So I guess the only way I can think of to get rid of the neediness is to be confident I can meet another girl who’s better.