Reply To: Frustrating Flake
Sounds like you did pretty good so far. There’s not much I would tell you you should have done differently. I’m not a big fan of saying we ‘should’ get a drink. I prefer to say something like, ‘let’s’ grab a drink. Just sounds more casual. But that’s minor.
It seems like this girl has another alpha guy in her orbit that she’s keeping herself open for. Maybe some guy that has broken up with her once or twice, or pushed her away and she’s pining for him. She likes you and she’s willing to move ahead, but then gets antsy.
I would keep pinging her every couple of months. It can’t hurt. If she comes around barking, you may want to try setting something up that day instead of planning for a week in advance. She could be horny and ready to go and that may pass. Strike while the iron is hot.