Reply To: Outside Interests

[Eric Disco]

Good job on getting to step five, man!

Should you learn a new skill?

The question you need to ask yourself is:

Has going out to practice meeting women become a habit for me?

If you think you can continue to go out regularly without having to put a lot of mental energy into getting yourself to go out, then I say go for it. Try something new.

But, for your new skill, I challenge you to do something more social than you normally do. Martial arts and learning a new language can be social but… it’s not THAT social. If it sounds like a challenge to you, then by all means, go ahead.

But if you can get to Step 5 in my program, I’m guessing it’s not that much of a challenge, at least not socially.

Can you think of any skills that might be more socially challenging for you to learn?

Eric