Reply To: Any thoughts on this?
If a girl wants to sleep with you, she’ll figure out a way to do it. I would try to get her to drive over to your place or at least your area on the next date. You want to get her to invest in some way. The more she invests, the more feelings she’ll have for you. And it usually doesn’t hurt for you to try to get her to do as much as possible for you. Make her say no.
I don’t buy the argument that she is ‘conservative.’ In fact, I don’t buy any excuses for why a woman wouldn’t want to hook up with me. It’s possible some of those excuses are valid, like she is a devout Christian. But to me, the excuses don’t matter. I won’t date a girl who won’t sleep with me or see me often enough, so if she has a disease or PTSD or is getting her masters in rocket science and doesn’t have time to see me, I don’t care. Excuses are the same thing to me as her simply telling me, “I don’t like you enough to see you more often or sleep with you.” I respond to it the same way: I pull away and let her feel the dread of losing me. If that’s not enough to get her on board, then I know I simply don’t have enough leverage with her. If a girl wants to be with you, she’ll figure out a way to do it.