Reply To: Cutie livin on my property
She got a bit defensive flustered and said “your a dick”
That’s good. That means you’re heading in the right direction.
I have been rewarding her with my attention and then ignoring (showing disinterest) her when she does things I don’t like (like giving guys at the bar too much attention (she gets a lot of attention)).
In that situation, the best possible thing you can do is talk with other women at the bar.
So next thing is, If she hasn’t bought in enough to hot tub with me, or kick it alone with me in my house, is it wise to force the issue so to speak by escalating?.
Yeah, at some point you want to make the move. See if you can get her to hang out with you alone in some way. And in this situation, alcohol is a pretty good option. That way if things don’t go as planned, you can always blame the alcohol. Helps avoid any weirdness.