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other people will have more advice, but seems like you got a number of early positive signals from her, which is potentially good. Parties can be rough since there’s a whole “other people” dynamic which makes things tricky–a party is usually where I drop the ball, to be honest.
You’ve been out twice–nothing’s happened yet–maybe take a risk and invite her to your place for food/movie/whatever and see where things go? Ignore the “I’m crazy” line–people say all sorts of nonsense. Everybody is crazy in some way or another.