Reply To: Unclear situations – to take action, or not

[MrAntiquity]

If you like her, ask her. There’s a point where there’s too much “game” and overthinking about things. Neediness has nothing to do with whether you’re waiting a day or 5 days…it has to do with whether or not you’re acting to validate yourself, or because you’re afraid of not getting her. No you don’t want to look desperate, but casually inviting someone out even upon meeting them is a great thing to do, in my opinion. Plus girls will be more likely to take you up on it.

If you don’t date regularly, it’s probably a good idea to get in the habit of inviting people on dates. Get used to them saying yes. Get used to them saying no. Learn how they react to you, and how you feel when you ask them. If you focus too much on tactical calculations without actually going for some of these dates, you’ll just get stuck.