Reply To: Could use some thoughts

[Eric Disco]

She showed up at your party. You are the center of attention because it’s your party. These are all your friends. This is very attractive to a woman. It’s a ton of social proof.

You walking her to her bus stop was a nice thing to do, particularly if she showed up at your party. Not saying you shouldn’t have done it, but women can get turned off when the guy does nice things for the girl, particularly early on or before you’ve slept with her.

It’s possible she expected you to try and hook up with her while she was at your place and got turned off when you didn’t try. Maybe she was horny and wanted to get laid.

And if you still had friends at the party, leaving them to do something nice for her could make it even worse. Again, not that you shouldn’t have done it, but it can turn a woman off when you play the nice guy.

If anything, I might have offered to let her stay at your place for the night.

Eric