Reply To: Got her to ask me out!
You’re on a roll! Nice job. There’s a lot to your last comment I think–just walking up to a girl and acting like a human being is 99% of the game, I think. Most people don’t do this because they’re afraid to. That’s a problem both with the normal “bar scene” where everyone’s putting on these fake alpha-male airs and acting like dicks (which occasionally works because at least they interact), or they’re hanging against the wall afraid to do anything (which never works because they don’t interact).
Just walking up to someone and being a mature adult is better than what nearly anyone else on the dating circuit is doing.