Reply To: Emotional interest

March 18, 2015 at 8:49 pm #72986

Participant

I understand that it is important to show sexual interest. However, I find it really hard to find the right balance because I feel like so much of the time, women are thinking “oh this guy just wants to fuck me”. I find a lot of the time as soon as you exhibit some sexual interest, that’s when they get weirded out.

For example yesterday I see this cute girl standing in front of the tube station.I open her with ‘deep thoughts’, but she was straight away excessively chatty with me so I had to abandon the normal routine. We talk for about 10 minutes and have a few laughs.Eventually I tell her that I am playing a gig at the venue opposite later that night, she asks how much it is to get in; she wants to come to the show. So she definitely had some kind of interest. Then at the end of the conversation I touch her on the arm and say something a bit flirty to show I am interested sexually, and I get this weird look from her. She gives me her number and gets me to call her, but I could see she didn’t save my number.

I texted her a bit later to say I’d got her on the guest list, but she didn’t turn up or reply to my text.

I guess it could have been anything, maybe she didn’t like me and was just being super friendly. But sometimes it really feels like being sexual is what turns them off.

TESTIMONIALS

Before the Six Step Method, I couldn't even ask someone what time it was. Now, I go out some days like a seek-and-destroy missile. When I see a beautiful woman, I'm there. I have the tools to start a conversation and be interesting, engaging, and attractive from the start.
- Jacob Pollard, Baltimore, MD

TESTIMONIALS

This book is practical and concise. Everything involves a tangible step I could take to break out of my comfort zone. The most important difference between your approach and others: like any artistic pursuit, you must treat yourself with kindness.
- Jorge Miller, New York, NY

TESTIMONIALS

I don’t hesitate to say that this book could be life-changing for those of us who clearly need to do something about our romantic lives and are looking for a way to do that that will make us not just better with women, but able to feel better about ourselves and to view the world as a less hostile place.
- Rich B., Los Angeles, CA

TESTIMONIALS

This is a great course for guys struggling with extreme anxiety when it comes to approaching women. The bottom line: If you have real trouble approaching women, this is definitely worth checking out.
- Jackson Hunter, DatingSkillsReview.com

Reply To: Emotional interest

THE BOOK:

Login

TESTIMONIALS

TESTIMONIALS

TESTIMONIALS

TESTIMONIALS

SIGN UP