Reply To: What to do?
Are you dating much otherwise, or just focusing your attention on her? If you the entire relationship is based on playing control games that’s not a very good relationship. I mean–the ideal situation is
1. You pull back
2. She pursues you again
3. (and here’s the kicker) You no longer feel threatened by whatever’s going on with her, so can continue with a mutual relationship if you guys both want one.
But your real issue isn’t about getting her under control–but yourself. Somehow you have to work on quieting down that obsessive streak–dating other people in the interim might help.
Maybe you’ll even end up liking one of them…