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That’s being assertive. I was mainly talking about how people see qualification as something they “need” to do to get the girl. As a technique.
I talk to girls just like I talk to anybody. They do not get special treatment. And I’ve found that it works just as well. So just like I talk to a friend, I’ll bust on them. but I don’t overdo it because they’re a girl and I won’t underdo it because I’m not assertive. They just don’t get any special treatment really.
The only difference is that I’m making moves on the girl.. through touch and flirting. but I’m definitely not changing my personality for them. And when people start talking about “qualification” like it’s some kind of technique they have to run, that to me is try-hard and LAME.