Reply To: Is it just warming up?
I have found the same thing – nice conversation tends to blow the set eventually, or at best the girl wants to be friends.
There is a good post somewhere on Eric’s site about making challenging statements. For example if the girl says she is a lawyer you say ‘that sounds like a really serious job. But you’re not one of those girls that doesn’t know how to have fun are you?’
The few times I have tried this, it worked great.