Reply To: on the advice to "just be yourself"
@ ryanno – I would say the opposite, that not working on yourself, not working on removing all those social blocks and fear based actions from a lifetime of bad social conformity training , not working to bring out the best you can be , is a cop out….anyone doing that is short changing themselves in life. Look at all the work you’ve done yourself to successfully overcome your AA.
Yes , there’s a chick for everyone , just as there’s a guy for everyone….but sorry, that’s mostly all mediocrity …..we, and I mean almost all of us on this forum, are in the outlier category or at least actively working to be more than just mediocre….
@ Lee – perfect summary there !