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think of your comfort zone like a little circle, with every approach you do it just grows to the point where it just gets bigger and bigger to where it engulfs everything around you. at that point, the world is yours. you don’t need to get into “state”, or worry about “people next to you”. you just open with whatever you want, next to people, or not.
just keep practicing. keep making it hurt. just like in the gym where the only way to get big muscles is to make it hurt. pickup is the same, where these social interactions need to make it hurt for you. only then do you expand yourself.
p.s and forget about perfect moments. it’s more important to just keep focusing on expanding your comfort zone. go into weird, awkward situations on purpose. make girls walk away from you on purpose. cause the moment your comfort zone has truly expanded, everything will look like a perfect moment.