Reply To: Making the effort in dating
Not nearly long enough.
Here is what you should try. Contact her once every four days or so and plan the date for a week and a half later. In other words, see her once every two weeks. Make the dates amazing, but relatively short.
At the end of the date, push for physical intimacy, and if she doesn’t give it to you, end the date. Don’t hang out. Don’t let her spend the night. Just end things and get her away from you.
Make her start to question why you’re not giving her more, not the other way around.