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None of the following work:

1) Your concern that something is going on
2) Accusing her of behaving badly
3) Discussing your feelings with her
4) Having her agree not to do something that bothers you

All of the following work:

1) Disappearing for a while
2) Having a rich, active, and visible social life
3) Showing her an amazing time when you appear (infrequently!) in her life, thereby creating a feeling of scarcity
4) Being mysterious and having a private life
5) When you’re in front of her, ignoring mention of anything that would have previously caused you to get upset