Reply To: The Age Question

[dyonisos]

so, what can we do? we can give in to caution and say goodbye right here, probably the wise choice. you can wait for a younger man to notice you on the subway. or we can meet for a good coffee and probably come to the same conclusion later…

this sounds like incongruence. you approached her and initiated conversation with and gave her a card to write you. reason you approached her was that she was young and hot, and young means that she is not experienced like you which is – as you say- what make you feel awkward.

now, you all of sudden start to do all that disqualifying becasue of age gap. its come accross as incongruent and week.

if presence of young women make you feel awkward why did you approach her in the first place?