Reply To: Adios Amigos (part II)
What Ryan said is dead on. That’s where everyone who sticks with this thing ultimately winds up. First, most of us want to get out there and prove that we can attract a million hot chicks and bang them and be “the man”. After we see some success, an empty feeling washes over us. It’s so disappointing to sleep with a hottie – especially when we think we’ve made some sort of connection – and never hear from her again. We want more, a deeper and more lasting connection, a more rewarding relationship. The most amazing thing about meeting community guys is that no matter what they initially tell you they want – which may or may not be true – spending a little time with them ultimately reveals that EVERYONE is looking for true love. It brings tears to my eyes just thinking about it. The best emails I’ve gotten from guys I’ve met are the ones thanking me for a marriage or kids. Yep. True.