Then I wonder what is the best action plan to take in order to learn how to get a girlfriend, know the step by step process of getting a girlfriend since obviously guys have to be the initiators, I wonder why being the initiator, approaching and talking to girls in a way that makes them attracted to you, see you as boyfriend material, never came natural or instinctive for me, because it looks like it is natural and instinctive common sense for most guys by their late teens and early 20’s
