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[The_Hurricane]

Yes, she might stop. But that’s ok. The main thing to establish is that you’re not going back to the old ways. You’re not available for her every time she wants some validation of your interest. You have your own life, a life you don’t care to talk about with her. You have to be just out of her reach. If that means she stops texting you meaningless little texts, so be it. Most of those texts are just the way women make sure that they’re still in charge, so don’t play by her rules. On this upcoming date, no discussion of future dates, disappear for a while, then plan something cool again. Every date, something cool, something interesting. A long time between dates. Very little communication. Play this long enough and that’s your best chance of getting her to ask for more.

–Lee