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From your responses I think that the following can be summarized:
Yes, you do care about the long term effects of your actions, but you do not care about the outcome of any individual interaction, simply because no single girl is of importance to you. You are very skeptical a girl will be good enough for you.

I’m trying to sexually escalate, banter, etc. all those stuff, but actually I don’t care if it works and she likes me. Right?

Which is all fine, but I still want to sleep with a girl even if she is not dating material.

And that fucks me up because it makes me care too much about the outcome of the interaction.

I feel like, how do I not care about the outcome of a particular interaction, while at the same time I AM trying to pick her up (as in I want to fuck her). What is the mindset that sits behind it?