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Man, this is getting more and more confusing :/

How do you deal with it when people are unwilling to open up? Twice when I did the opener today, the girls said yes, i.e they were in fact thinking deep thoughts. Then when I asked them what they were thinking, they got all uncomfortable; they didn’t seem to want to tell me.

It seems like the opposite way of doing things to what Eric suggests, ie to make small talk>get comfortable>gradually go deeper.