Reply To: "spontaneous" vs "structured"
At the end of the day man, we are all here to learn. There is nothing wrong with trying someone else’s approach. If you are learning an instrument, you have to start off playing in someone else’s style before you can develop your own. I think it’s a similar situation with meeting women.
We can all make our own theories about what works and what doesn’t. There’s only one way to find out what’s gonna work for us personally, and that’s to try stuff out.