Reply To: How to Not Give a Fuck

[ryano]

I did mention in a separate post that you need to atleast have the ability to flirt.

So when I ask for the number. It’s usually not just “hey, can I have your number?” said in a serious way.

You’re right that man can’t just say that and expect a number. There’s a few other elements involved:

1. NONVERBALS. His posture, his smile, the way he looks her in the eyes.
2. His ability to flirt. Does he tease? Does he joke? is it lighthearted?

So zhelesko, there’s alot of nonverbal communication going on here. But what I meant with my first about NGAF – is that as long as you’re doing that the nonverbals will usually take care of itself. When the girl senses you are free-flowing, and you’re unflirted in what you say she respects that. The Cupid vid is a good example of that. He just blurts out what he’s thinking and he always does it with a smile, and his intention is THERE. Meaning, it’s VERY VERY clear that he’s flirting with the girl. It’s clear from the first sentence that he’s flirting with her. And that’s important to convey. I would bet that you’re not getting the results you want because you hide behind your intent and you don’t express yourself in a sexual way.

Hurricane, the guy in the last video is not average looking. He’s a midget. I’d say he’s below average looking. And if you look in his other vids he usually approaches girls that are better looking than him.