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@ someguyUK your reply # 71693 –
thats a very valid point you made up there and the main issue for us guys who have been at this for a while.
I’ve seen Lee in action in NYC. I can only say that I dream to reach his level of game. I’ve seen a very good looking, highly educated set of his ask him out on a date first, 2 days after taking his card. In comparison I’ve taken lots of phone numbers and gone nowhere.
from my limited game experience, Self Confidence is what initially helps establish “status” to most women, and the way to demonstrate the confidence is to lead, be relatively unreactive, and not be afraid to challenge the girl when she puts out nonsense. Building this vibe up is crucial & involves lots of inner game as well ( and yes , it takes a bloody long time and a commitment to getting there)
Intelligence also demonstrates status. being able to debate & discuss various topics, and having strong opinions all add to perceived status.
Looks do matter – but as the guys in the forum here have said – much can be done to improve this aspect quickly.
As a close friend of mine who moonlighted as a male model said once ” Bro, its not that the girls don’t care about our looks, but they are much more forgiving about it than we guys ”
Numbers by themselves are fairly meaningless, I get several a week when I’m gaming, and almost all turn into flakes, except those that I manage to get into a conversation with – say around 15 minutes – and build up some connection. Flakes include girls who indicated they wanted me to approach and even girls who initiated text game.
@ Ryano – Thank you for taking the trouble to post those video links, especially the Elite link about the homeless street Gigolo. however the girls in them aren’t worth a second look. Sorry.
( given your own experience at this game, I doubt you find them appealing as well )