Reply To: Approaching girls you're not attracted to?
its always good to be social and do some warm ups on girls, even if you’re not attracted to them. Warm ups have helped me overcome my AA substantially.
That said, going direct onto girls on the street, especially girls that I do not find attractive, is something I prefer not to do. Its hard enough ( for beginners ) to stop moving girls, and if she isn’t somebody I’m attracted to, it feels kind of dishonest and probably shows through in the interaction. Much better to just practice situational/observational openers and get calibrated . Cross walks are a great place to practice since the opener can be indirect and you get to walk in the same direction.
I either use a situational/observational opener or Lee’s “deep thoughts” .