Reply To: Approaching girls you're not attracted to?

[ryano]

And as far as girls you’re not attracted to– should you pursue them? absolutely not!

And as far as girls you’re not attracted to– should you atleast open them. Absolutely! I probably wouldn’t do it direct though. Girls on the street can be stopped by indirects I do it alot to practice my transitioning/improvisational skills. Learn how to ask a question, complicate a question, transition, and then get more personal. And learn to improvise. Do NOT use the same opener again and again. You can ask about coffee, you can ask about an atm, about where to buy a scarf, sunglasses, the list is limitless. And be good at bullshitting (telling people white lies). This skill needs to be practiced alot to get good at it.

Me> Do you know where a coffeeplace is?
Her> there’s a starbucks down the road
Me> Oh I don’t know if I want starbucks, I’m looking for something more local. [complication]
Her> hmm let me think. [getting her to invest]
Me> where do you usually go for coffee? [transition to a personal conversation]
Her> oh I like x and y across that way.
Me> Cool. btw, do you live here? [now you’re in]
Her> yeah..
Me> oh ok, I just got here recently. it’s nice to be back I was traveling for awhile. [justifying the personal question]
… and on and on